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Real Life is Messy & Frustrating...(And It Doesn't Look Like Instagram or Pinterest!)

 

When was the last time you felt frustrated?

 

For me, it was probably about ten minutes ago. 

Frustrations are a part of life. Things don't go according to plan. People are inconsiderate and inconsistent. Circumstances are always in a state of flux. Homeschooling can be just plain hard.

And so, we can become frustrated.

 

Bur there is a solution for our frustration, and that solution is Jesus. When frustration comes, then it is time to run to Him. Pray and ask specifically that the Lord will fill you with His good and perfect and pleasing will for the exact situation that is frustrating you.

(I have found that my prayer is usually answered by the Lord reminding me to act in love and kindness...)

 

This isn't a pep talk. Nor is it a self-help segment that I heard on a podcast or read on a blog. You cannot do this on your own and neither can I. But if you ask, the Lord will do it through you and it will glorify Him.

 

So remember that frustration, when yielded to Jesus, can actually become a pathway to kindness. And that is a wonderful thing!

 

 

 

And, hey, if you're a bit frustrated and feeling like life is, well... MESSY you might consider joining a group of women for a really amazing opportunity this weekend (Saturday, December 12th, 2020).  

Our fellow homeschooler Cathleen Gray is hosting an online event to encourage and support mamas of all walks of life. There will be organization tips - info about setting up simple routines that can be easily maintained - and just all-the-things that will bless you right here & now at the tail end of what has arguably been the longest year E-V-E-R. 

There are, of course, paid options for this live online event. (coupon code "Messy Moms" is pretty valuable!) And there is, of course, a totally free option. I hope you'll check it out and also... just know that the Lord has peace & favor & blessing for you as this year wraps up. He really, truly does. 

 

Oh, last thing... my latest book (see pic below) is available now in on Kindle, but it appears to be in "Amazon publishing jail" regarding the print version. Sigh... it fits right in with the way 2020 has gone, I guess! As I wait for the print edition to become, well, purchasable (is that a word? I don't think that's a word...) I'd like to give blog readers the chance to get a free eBook copy for them to review. Email me at JanLBurt@outlook.com or find me on any of my platforms and I'll get that sent to you right away. 

 


Thanks for always being such a supportive group of blog readers. I have been so blessed over the years - you all are truly wonderful. 

 

Hope to "see" you this weekend at the Messy Moms event! 

 

Lord bless




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